Half term is over…!

This week has been full of fun stuff! We kicked the week off with trip to the park in the next town, as their children didn’t have a half term this week we knew it would be quiet. So we made the most of it. Also popped into The Range to get some bits to craft during the week.

Tuesday saw us go to MK Gymnastics Centre for the playgym they run every week. Both girls loved it. Marnie just walked around everywhere saying “what’s that?”…. This stage is fun… said no mother ever! πŸ™„

Wednesday, we ventured out to a lake about a ten minute drive from our house. Darcey and Matt rode their bikes round and I walked/jogged round with them. Marnie was in a seat on the back of Matt’s bike. It was such a lovely day. The sun was shining and temperature was OK. Once we got all the way round we had Ice Creams and Hot Chocolates. Not in that order.

Thursday we packed up some snacks and headed over to the local Safari Park to see the animals! Once you drive in. There’s a bit where you can drive round and be super close to the animals. We had arrived just as it was opening. So all the animals were getting up and really active! Especially the monkeys! The baby ones jumped on our car and were playing together. It was so funny to watch! One monkey also thought it was appropriate to play with his bits on my bonnet. In front of us. πŸ˜‚ We saw all the giraffes being let out of their house too. I’ve never seen a giraffe run. It was fascinating to watch. It’s like they’re running in slow motion. Once the drive Safari was done. We walked around the rest of the Park. We saw meerkats, porcupines, otters, emu’s, wallaby’s, pigs, goats, penguins, lemurs, red pandas, elephants, rhinos, birds, sea lions and probably more. They have a bird house where you can go in and feed them some nectar. Darcey and Marnie FREAKED OUT! As soon as we went in the birds came flocking over to us and started fighting on who was going to get the small pot of nectar first! The noise they made was like they were being murdered! We weren’t doing that. Just for the record.

Friday we had Darcey’s friend and her little brother over for lunch. Their mum is pregnant with her third child (she’s mental and I’ve told her that on a regular basis!). So I offered to have them over for a few hours to give her a break. I’m nice like that. They played and made their own pizzas for lunch. It’s the best way to get a child to eat. Let them help you make their own food. πŸ˜‰. Well. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it’s a flop.

Over the weekend Matt was back at work. So I caught up on Teen Mom 2 and did Marnie’s birthday card to send into her favourite channel – CBeebies. The first programme she really watched was ‘Sarah & Duck’. So I based her birthday card on that. I think I’ve done a really good job.

It just needs her photo on the top of Sarah’s head and I can then send it in. I did Darcey’s back in October, but it wasn’t shown. So hopefully Marnie’s will be.

So that was our Half Term! Busy and lots of memories made. I was back at work today and I missed being there. It was busy today which is how I like it.

Adios for now. I’ll be back over the weekend. We have my cousin and his boys coming over on Friday for the weekend.

That will be a fun read!

Last week of term

Darcey was very excited on Friday. Because this week is half term for her! A week off school, but don’t let that fool you. It’s not a week off getting up early. Oh no, Marnie is teething (big bottom teeth) and the amber beads are not doing their job this time. They’re usually very trustworthy, but they can’t help the pain of the nasty back teeth! She’s got temperatures of 39 and struggling to sleep due to a nasty cough too. Poor girl is powering through though! Still giving smiles and annoying Darcey! Over the weekend we had the usual swimming class in the morning and Darcey impressed me so much this week! She can swim not only without a float, but can swim using her arms too. She stops a few times for the width of the pool, but she’s doing it! She’s doing so well and it’s amazing to see her progress each week. She had a birthday party and sleepover to attend that day too. So I dropped her off at her former childminders house for her daughters 8th birthday. The theme was MineCraft. Darcey has no idea what that is. But apparently she had the best time and ended up going to bed at 10pm. Almost four hours later than normal! We picked her up on Sunday morning ready to drive to London to see Matt’s Nan, Dad and step mum. “So what did you do at the sleepover then Darcey?” Her reply “I don’t know, I maybe did some dancing and I had pancakes for breakfast”. Great. I’m glad you had no clue what you did! πŸ™„πŸ€¦πŸ½β€β™€οΈ. The drive to London was easy, Blackwall tunnel was clear and we got there in an hour and 20 minutes! Amazing! Our first stop was to Nanna Nina, who has recently moved into a home and she loves it. She does seem so much happier, although gets annoyed at other residents who have no idea what they’re doing. She told us a story of a woman who puts her finger in the sugar bowl, licks it and puts her finger back in. DOUBLE DIPPING! 🀒. Nina is almost 100 and doesn’t look it or acts like it! She’s still got her wits about her. It was lovely seeing her.

We then went over to visit Dave, Jen and the cutest puppy dog, Jasper. Jasper was super excited to see more people at his house and it showed! He was trying to jump out of Jen’s arms when we got to the door. They call him ‘the 100 MPH dog’ he is just mad! But the girls have learnt to love him and there was a completely different atmosphere around him yesterday. Darcey couldn’t stop holding him and wanting to be near him! Now previously, if any dog went near her. She would freak out! To the point where she would scream and try and get to a high place (mainly us having to pick her up). This time. She had already said in the car “I’m going to be brave with jasper today”. She was great with him and so was Marnie. She did freak out at first when Jasper jumped up at her and tried licking her face (he is the same height as her when on his back legs). So she didn’t trust him for a while, but when she saw Darcey playing with him, she was able to give him cuddles. It was lovely to see the girls playing with him.

We took Jasper out for a walk over the common across the road from their house. It had been raining on and off all day, but that doesn’t stop British people going out! Winter coats on. Marnie in her buggy. Raincover on and off we went. It. Was. Flipping. Freezing! It may as well have been snowing. All the “moody clouds” were over head and forced us to walk back home at a quicker pace than when we started!

Around five pm we made the trip back home. This time the Blackwall Tunnel was heaving. We’ve made the same trip many times and every time it shocks me how people drive around that area. Cars pushing in the queue, driving over hatched lines and slip roads they’re not meant to drive down. It’s so bloody annoying and I’m glad Matt drives because I think I would get mega road rage if I were to drive around that part of London.

But we got home at around 7:15pm. Good driving Matt! High five! We put the girls to bed and sat down to watch SAS: Who Dares Wins. If you haven’t watched it. It’s basically some random civilians who have applied to take on the challenge of the tough process in becoming apart of the SAS. They don’t actually get into the SAS in real life, but it’s the last standing who are told they could do it! It’s great, but sometimes a hard watch! Watch it. See if you could do it. I couldn’t! I think I’d cry at the first challenge.

I’ve started doing my own projects this week too. Photos to follow. I get my inspiration from Pinterest. I ❀️ Pinterest. I look for craft projects and ideas for dinners mainly. We have a 4 weekly food planner for dinner at home and it’s primarily recipes from Pinterest. So thanks Pinterest bloggers for your great ideas! my calligraphy needs some work, but I think my first attempts are pretty awesome!

We love UNO in our house! Darcey picked up the rules pretty quickly. So we have evenings where we just play games. The girls love playing with PlayDoh”-doh-doh-doh” too!

Now it’s half term. A week with both girls and no work. It’s going to be great… She says. 😬🀫

Bullies can do one…

So in the news recently there have been more and more cases of bullying online and teens especially committing suicide, it’s horrendous and so incredibly sad for those unfortunate enough to have to go through such an awful time in their lives! I was bullied in school. But not enough for me to want to end me life. I self harmed, but never had any suicidal thoughts, but being in school before social media (yes there was a time before social media, and we survived a day without looking at a mobile), it was probably a whole different ball game. I’ve always said to friends that I’d hate to be a child/teen now. It just seems too hard, what with all the pressure to be a certain size, not being the right ethnicity, penalised for being the wrong gender, having a different faith. Children these days seem to have it all thrown at them. What can we do to change it? Change the way “celebrities” post on social media, change who we see on reality tv, (I mean not just choosing the slimmest woman, the man with a six pack or even just an able bodied person) or just change views of the individual?? Whatever the answer, something needs to be done! We were told this morning that social media would be shut down if they don’t do anything about someone searching ‘suicide’. I think that’s a great idea, better still, should we get rid of social media altogether. πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈ

I wouldn’t have a clue what I would do to someone if they were the reason my girls were sad or even thinking they’re worthless and don’t deserve all good things in life! No child, or grown adult actually should think they’re better than someone else. They may be the most intelligent or the most popular, but that doesn’t give them the right to make someone else’s life a misery. Simple as that.

If you don’t like someone. That’s fine. You don’t have to like everyone and not everyone will like you. I’ve said that to Darcey ever since she came home sad from school saying a girl in her class said to her “I don’t like you, Darcey”. Explaining to a five year old that it’s ok not to like everyone, but you just have to be kind was surprisingly easy. She totally understood. I’d like to think she’s nice all the time. She isn’t. She can be grumpy towards her friends, but at five, she’s still learning how to manage her emotions. I just have to keep telling her to be kind even if you don’t like someone. Always be kind. You have no idea what their life is like outside of school.

That’s me done for today. Netball night and I’m ready to win. πŸ’ͺ🏼🏐πŸ₯‡

Darcey is back at school!

So today, Darcey is up and ready to start her day back at school. “I’m so excited to see my teachers! I’ve missed them”

I’m so glad that she loves school. It really does help that I’m not one of those parents who have to bribe her to stay or peel her off my leg while she’s screaming bloody murder because I’m leaving her…. in actual prison!

I would say that I’ve enjoyed a lie in since she’s been off. This is almost far from the truth. She’s still been up before the crack of dawn. We’ve got her a Gro Clock that changes from stars to the sun when it’s time to get up, so I had to change the time of that from six am to 6:30. Half an hour makes all the difference, said no one ever!

Darcey walking to her big school for the first time back in September.